Becoming a mother has been the most wonderful experience for me so far. Of course it is one of the most beautiful stages of anyone’s life. Even before my babies were out, I had started talking to them, thinking about them; there was just so much in me that I wanted to share with them.
In all those conversations that we had (which the the- would-be-dad wasn’t aware of), I made a lot of promises. Those promises were more of a reminder to myself to be a perfect mother.
I promised to say ‘I Love You’ to my babies each day, everyday! The impact of this phrase might not mean much in today’s times, but I know somewhere in their minds they would know that they are my soul, that whatever they do – right or wrong- I would still love them.
I promised to bring them up as calm and patient individuals ( that’s so unlike me, but that’s the reason I didn’t want them to take these traits from me!). I will not hold them back just because of own fears. I will let them take chances, trust their instinct and let them learn at each step.
I promised to let them be..to enjoy their childhood; to jump in puddles, play with water, scribble on the walls, create a mess in the house.. I know for one that childhood never comes back. I promised to act goofy with them and relive my childhood.
I promised to respect their opinions, tastes, decisions. From eating what they like to dressing up as per their taste to be social or not-so-social- I will never force my opinion. I promised to accept their uniqueness.
I promised to be a mother who wouldn’t lose her identity even after becoming a mother. I promised I would never hold them responsible for any sacrifices or adjustments I would be making in life. I promised to continue being a responsible daughter, a caring wife and an efficient woman professionally.
I promised to stand behind them in any situation. Behind- not beside- because I want them to grow with self confidence, with an instinct to take risks, with the ability to fight back in case of any troubles.
I promised to see the world with them. To create memories from times spent together; to celebrate even the most minuscule achievements. Books, art, theatre, music- I promised to introduce them to all such beautiful aspects of life.
In short, I promised to give my time and all my love to them. I promised to be a great wife and a loving & caring mother. I promised to not just love them but also express it.
What did you promise to your little one? Please share!
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